I was talking to Mr. Big Cock tonight – unfortunately he has some family in town and has to entertain them so we can’t catch up. I did mention to him that if he has any other ‘fuck buddies’ that next time he should bring them along. His response was kinda funny – he said he has one guy but that he is a bit too ‘gay’ for me.
What is with that? I definitely prefer str8 activing guys and that is exactly what I am but when it comes to fuck buddies – I’m not picky at all.
I’m wondering if any of you guys have experienced this, “you aren’t gay enough“, kind of attitude.
Through business and even my blog I’ve experienced this since I began in the business. I’ve had bloggers not trade links with me because my blog isn’t ‘strickly gay’. I’ve had a close friend of mine who is a pretty str8 acting guy tell me I probably shouldn’t go to a party in Sydney because it would be too ‘gay’ for me.
It doesn’t bother me but I do find it interesting that for so long anyone with homosexual tendencies (which I obviously have) struggled to be accepted and now some people (a minority for sure) have turned this around.
I’d be interested to hear what you guys think about this or if you’ve ever had similar experiences.
Today I was thinking about my gay history and about my first couple of gay experiences.
I’ve written about my first experience on here before, which I was some pretty sad blowjobs sitting in a chair with the lights off. After that I had some random hookups which involved an improving blowjob technique and some handjobs but it wasn’t until my 3rd experience before I actually kissed a guy and another couple of experiences after that before I let a guy fuck me.
Thinking back I cringe at my lack of experience and even how selfish a lover I was.
What I needed was a lover to have taken me under his wing and teach me all about the birds and the bees.
I’d love to hear what you guys experienced in the early days of your sex life.
I love sex.
There is no other way to put it. It is hard to value something different in comparison (ie – if I had to give up snowboarding or sex which one would I choose?). That is a tough question. If I had sex on tap I’d probably give up snowboarding…. but sex on tap is not something that I have for any great stretch of time.
The two days I spent with Mark (my new photographer) were amazing and filled with mindblowing sex. I’m comfortable with my ‘experience’ level but being in mountain towns there are gaps between great sexual partners. Mark, living in Sydney, gets sex whenever he wants it – and he likes sex too so he gets it a lot!!!
It is not very often that I get to hang out with openly gay friends and I was immersed in it in Sydney. Just the openness regarding sex and sexuality is something that I wasn’t brought up with and is not something that surrounds me. It was amazing!!! To the point of being infectious.
Right now I’m on the Central Coast and hour and a half north of Sydney – ever since I got here it has been raining but I still went for a swim this morning. The rain is supposed to continue which is a bit of a bummer (not really speedo tan kind of weather). I wasn’t going to go back to Sydney except to fly out but I think I might drop in and visit Mark for a day or two before I go. I’ll have a sore butt after the 15hr flight so I might as well get some enjoyment out of it.
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