Not last night but the night before…. we had a BBQ around at my place and I was setup with this chick (we’ll call her Natasha – not sure she is quite ready to know all of my secrets just yet). Things went as expected and she spent the night in my bed.
It was great, she was great, she is cute but she also has a boyfriend (which I knew before hand).
I’m not sure if this bothers me or not – I suppose it doesn’t bother me that much because otherwise I wouldn’t have let her suck my cock.
Perhaps I’m not bothered because I’ve never felt as though I’ve posessed someone (a little too stong a word but you get what I mean). I really like Will and I could be in a long term relationship with him but I don’t feel as though his/my monogamy has anything to do with it at this stage and I know full well that he will sleep with other people and since he reads this blog, he is well aware of what I get up to.
A friend of mine who lives in San Francisco has a saying that he uses a lot – “There are no rules“
He isn’t an anarchist or anything like that. But his outlook on life is that if it works for you, that is OK. I like the phrase.
These guys pictured below (Aden and Jordan) have been together for a few years and are now working in the porn industry as actors. Obviously, they are working with other actors and not just each other. However, in this DNA article they talk about how they are committed as a couple – they also talk about how they involve other people in their private sex life.
There are no rules…..
I love San Francisco!!!
For so many reasons as well – the city is beautiful, it has a huge gay influence/community, it is open minded and I have a very good friend who lives there with his wife.
Sometimes I do get judgemental about people – people who marry to young and I’m not sure that is always right, people who say they are flaming homosexuals when they are 17yo and I’m not sure that isn’t right either. Visiting San Francisco and living in the Lower Haite neighbourhood for 2 weeks I have this feeling of being ‘fresh’, open minded a little more than I was (and you guys know I’ve pretty open minded).
I’m not sure if I am articulating this as best I could (perhaps I can blame the jetlag) but I feel open to new ideas, I feel my own predjudices have been watered down and I really feel alive after living in the big city for 2 weeks.
It really is a wonderful place and I’d like to share with you guys some photos that I took while I was there – there are some more which my mate will hopefully send through in the next couple of days and I’ll just add them to this post.
My first bike ride was a 16 mile round trip, down to Golden Gate park. I think this is the head engineer.
After a tourista photo pose we rode over the bridge on the ocean (eastern) side which opens to cyclists ONLY at 3:30pm. This was an eye opener for me and it was pretty awesome to have the entire bridge to just cyclists!!!
Another day I was taken on a walk to my favourite restaurant – it was nearly an hour walk along the coast line where my host and I played some chess and had a dozen oysters….. Can anyone name the restaurant we were walking towards?
It is just after midnight on my last day in the US. Tomorrow evening I fly out to Queenstown for another winter and by looking at the forecasts it looks like winter has already started down there.
I’ve had a great time in San Fran – actually a week longer than I expected. My net connection hasn’t been very good at all and I apologise for not posting much this last week.
Everything in Queenstown has been organised and a friend of mine is picking me up from the airport.
Speedos are definitely on my mind and perhaps while in travel I’ll have some time to write about my only sexual escapade here in San Fran. When I first landed here I went like 5 days without cumming at all – purely because I was too busy and sleeping on someones couch I didn’t have much privacy.
I’m looking forward to getting back into my swimming in Queenstown (there is a public lap pool in town) and I have just ordered 3 new pairs of Aussiebums.
Speaking of Aussiebums – I have owned (I don’t think I have them anymore – I tend to wear them out as I wear them all the time). Actually I have owned 2 of these 3 Aussiebums – which ones have I not owned?
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