You guys won’t believe it…..
Today at the pool, Alex and I saw a guy, about our age, a few tattoos but that is pretty common these days, and he was wearing a pair of black ADIDAS three-stripe speedos.
I couldn’t believe it.
Funny thing was that Alex saw him first and pointed him out to me.
Nothing at all to indicate that the guy likes girls but maybe he’ll read this blog post….. That is how Alex ‘outed’ me, he was a member of SwimmerBoyz.com and a daily reader of this blog.
Thanks for your comments and emails on yesterdays post. If I get 3 comments here, you bet I’m getting 5 times that many emails – I prefer the comments and I get to reply to the comments more than emails but I appreciate them both.
I only touched on it yesterday about depression but it seems to have opened a can of worms.
Is the gay community more vulnerable to depression?
Despite the evolution in social acceptance, does ‘coming out’ still trouble a lot of us?
I’m not out. My circle of friends here in Aussie think I’m 100% str8. I am completely comfortable with my current situation, you guys know I like girls as well as guys. You know I’ve actually been given a hard time over the years BECAUSE I like girls from my gay friends. If I was 100% out to everyone, I would feel that it would restrict my str8 side.
It is easier for me staying in the closet and I’m fine with that – at this point in my life, I don’t want to identify/explain my sexuality.
Perhaps I’m taking the easy option. It must be terrifying for guys who are gay to come out. I’m sure friendships are lost/broken by coming out which is horrible but a fact of life unfortunately.
Does this whole, explaining ones sexuality bring a bigger risk of depression, anxiety to our community?
I’d love to hear your thoughts guys – I’m off to the pool. Alex can’t make it today, I was going to skip it but I was wearing my black arena speedos and I saw this pic and I want his body which was enough motivation for me to head to the pool.
Quick notice for this post – I’ve listed my DE Swimwear on Ebay – click here to see it. I only have size large available but this is the first time in years they have been available to the public. If you are a current or past member of SwimmerBoyz.com email me for a free pair otherwise check them out Ebay:
Back to today’s post.
Yesterday I caught up with Alex at the pool.
He is super excited about Kip arriving and all the fun that the three of us are going to get up to.
Today at the pool we got caught in a conversation after we got out of the water. I wonder what other people think at the pool, not that there are many people about at midday on a Wednesday. Both of us were wearing black speedos (Alex in his nylon AussieBums, me wearing a pair of lycra Arenas). Even though we were just talking Alex had his towel around his waist but I’m a little more of a show off and I just had my towel over my shoulder.
If I saw two guys hanging out like that, I would be following them into the changerooms, slipping a note in their bags at the pool or even slipping a note onto their car.
I’ve never actually done those things, have any of you guys ‘stalked’ a hot guy you’ve seen at the gym or pool?
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