I hope everyone has had a Merry Xmas!!!
It is just after 5am here in Colorado on the day after Xmas. Kips folks live in Denver and I was fortunate enuf to be invited to their place for Xmas dinner and Kip and I stayed the night (they know Kip is gay but I slept on the floor and after a few hrs sleep I’m awake and keen to tackle the day).
The weather is supposed to be terrible today which could make the 1.5hr drive home a nightmare but right now it is fine outside (although darn cold).
For those of your in the southern hemisphere I am a little jealous of the warm weather you are enjoying so have a speed swim for me if you get the chance.
I haven’t given Kip his Xmas present yet (the snowmobile) but his sister is going to have it sitting in the driveway when we get home later today. I’m so excited to see his reaction – he is going to be pumped.
Merry Xmas guys.
I read this interview last week which was posted on Brenton’s Aussielicious blog. I found it quite interesting and I think it might create some interesting comments.
Mr S is a bisexual married man who’s been a reader of Aussielicious for a couple of years now. He was kind enough to take part in this interview for you all to hear about being bisexual and married. Bisexuality is a hot topic among gay people, often doubting it’s true existence. Here’s a man who is adamant it exists.
How old are you? I am 27 years old.
Have you always considered yourself Bi? No. Up until I went to university, I considered myself straight. Yes, as part of playing sports there was some always a lot of banter and goofing around, but I had never given thought to actual sex with a man until later.
What would you estimate the gender ratio of sexual partners has been over the years? Okay, I was kind of a man-slut in my HS and college days, so I would say the gender ratio was about 100-7 over the years, in favor of women.
How long have you been married? A little over 3 years.
Has your wife always known about your bisexuality? Not exactly. I did tell her about a few frat house episodes, but never admitted to full-on bisexuality. She believes those days are long-gone.
How did you tell her? Before I asked her to marry me, I told her I wanted her to be fully aware of what she was getting into with me, so I just flat-out told her everything – all the women, and some of the men.
How often would you estimate you have sex outside your relationship with your wife? About 15 times.
Is the sex outside the marriage only with men or other women too? Only with men. My wife is the only woman with whom I sleep.
Do you think your wife suspects? I don’t think she has any idea.
What would you say to people who think there are no truly bisexual people? That they have no idea what it’s like to be attracted to both genders. I’ve always found both men and women attractive. I now find both genders sexually desirable. My ex-boyfriend finally told his mother and sister that he’s bi and they think bisexuality is just a stop on the train ride to Gaytown. They couldn’t be more wrong, IMO!
If the situation were reversed and you were in a relationship with a man, do you think you would sleep with women on the side? I don’t know. I’ve thought about it and if I were to commit to a relationship with a man, we would be perceived as a gay couple, and I think I would want to honor that perception. But the reality is that I would probably sleep with women on the side.
I’d like to say I’m not proud of cheating with men. It’s that there’s no good societally-acceptable way for bisexuals to exist. I try to minimize it, but sometimes the need for intimacy with a man is just overpowering and I succumb to temptation.
I’m keen to hear your thoughts on this guys.
Thank you for all the kind words guys. It means a lot to get wonderful comments like that.
The old guy was buried today and I’m just killing some time right now so I thought I’d post here. It has been good catching up with everyone and had a nice walk along the beach this morning with some of the rellies.
There have been some big nights drinking with the family (socially of course) and should be another cracker tonight.
One thing I have noticed in the past is when I am suffering from a hangover I feel what I think is depressed. Around mid afternoon I just can’t be bothered doing anything. It isn’t that bad but it is the only experience I have ever had which would give me some (albeit minor) appreciation for what people with depression experience.
Lately it has been happening a bit – I am still putting it down to some big nights and travelling solo I have a lot of time to think to myself.
I’d be interested to hear anyone’s comments on that.
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