I’ve never really seen myself as having a proper ‘boyfriend’ but this weekend with Will has changed my mind, I think.
Will and I have the same hobbies, he is awesome on a snowboard, we fuck like rabbits, he likes girls, he is str8 acting and he is hot. He is very shy about his gay tendencies and outside of his time with me and all the fun we’ve gotten up to he hasn’t experimented with other guys.
Since Will got back to Aussie after his winter in Canada he hasn’t been able to get the kind of job that he wants and with the current economic conditions he doesn’t expect that to change anytime soon. So I asked him to move in with me – I’m sure I can give him enuf work (maybe some photography work – fingers crossed – would never get him to do a face shot shot).
He did get on the plane this morning but I’m hoping that I’ve planted a seed for him to think about.
He did say that if he didn’t have a proper job by November he would consider going back to North America for the winter. I was really hoping to move to the Central Coast north of Sydney and have a summer on the beach and in my speedos but I think I’d give that up if Will wanted me to head over with him.
Interesting times…..
Over the last couple of months I’ve noticed a certain train of thought….
That I should just come out and annouce my homosexuality.
Thing is… I’m not homosexual. I’m not hetrosexual either. I am a bit of both – hence the word bisexuality.
Bisexuality is a sexual orientation which refers to the romantic and/or sexual attraction of individuals to others of both genders (socially) or sexes (biologically). Most bisexuals are not equally attracted to men and women and may even shift between states of finding either gender or sex exclusively attractive over the course of time.However, some bisexuals are and remain fairly static in their level of attraction throughout their adult life.
Although observed in a variety of forms in human societies and in the animal kingdom throughout recorded history, the term bisexuality (like the terms hetero- and homosexuality) was only coined in the 19th century.
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Perhaps it is because of my nomadic existence these days but I comfortable being ‘in the closet’ to some of my friends and family while in different circles I’m more than happy to be known as someone who is very open minded.
Unfortunately, not everyone that I know is open minded enuf to understand that. And I’m not on a crusade to change peoples minds so what they don’t know doesn’t hurt them. I’m sure there are hypothetical scenarios which would cause a conflict of where I would step up and show my true colours (as has happened to Aaron) but that hasn’t happened yet and if it does I’ll deal with it then.
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If you guys sound interested then I would like to discuss this more over the coming weeks (leave a comment if you are). Two great bloggers Aaron (in Montreal) and Matt (in LA) have both written about their ‘coming out’ and ‘not coming’ out experiences over the last couple of days. They both have completely difference experiences and although my reaction has been different I don’t think any of us are wrong – just different.
And if there are any girls who are going to be in Queenstown who want to test out my bisexuality then count me in – haha.
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