My Bisexuality
Over the last couple of months I’ve noticed a certain train of thought….
That I should just come out and annouce my homosexuality.
Thing is… I’m not homosexual. I’m not hetrosexual either. I am a bit of both – hence the word bisexuality.
Bisexuality is a sexual orientation which refers to the romantic and/or sexual attraction of individuals to others of both genders (socially) or sexes (biologically). Most bisexuals are not equally attracted to men and women and may even shift between states of finding either gender or sex exclusively attractive over the course of time.However, some bisexuals are and remain fairly static in their level of attraction throughout their adult life.
Although observed in a variety of forms in human societies and in the animal kingdom throughout recorded history, the term bisexuality (like the terms hetero- and homosexuality) was only coined in the 19th century.
Perhaps it is because of my nomadic existence these days but I comfortable being ‘in the closet’ to some of my friends and family while in different circles I’m more than happy to be known as someone who is very open minded.
Unfortunately, not everyone that I know is open minded enuf to understand that. And I’m not on a crusade to change peoples minds so what they don’t know doesn’t hurt them. I’m sure there are hypothetical scenarios which would cause a conflict of where I would step up and show my true colours (as has happened to Aaron) but that hasn’t happened yet and if it does I’ll deal with it then.
If you guys sound interested then I would like to discuss this more over the coming weeks (leave a comment if you are). Two great bloggers Aaron (in Montreal) and Matt (in LA) have both written about their ‘coming out’ and ‘not coming’ out experiences over the last couple of days. They both have completely difference experiences and although my reaction has been different I don’t think any of us are wrong – just different.
And if there are any girls who are going to be in Queenstown who want to test out my bisexuality then count me in – haha.
Back for more (yes the 20yo)
After my drunken shag last weekend I honestly didn’t think I’d go back for more.
It was fun but the 20yo really isn’t the kind of guy I hang out with and it is a little close to home as we both hang out in similar circles (he is out and openly gay and I’m not so it isn’t like we can date even if I wanted to).
Enuf of the boring stuff – today I worked all day (working on a new layout for WhiteSpeedos.com) and I’ve got more work on the layout here as well. Pretty boring day but I broke it up with a swim and when I got out of the pool I was keen to head home for a wank but I had an SMS message from the 20yo.
I was wearing a pair of black speedo brand speedos and I was horny so I made a detour via his place.
As I walked in I was given a hug and a beer and told to sit in the lounge on the couch. Then the show began – the 20yo had bought 4 pairs and he looked good in them. When he got to the last pair (a white pair) he knealt over me and we started kissing.
My cock was hard by now and I needed to adjust myself so I suggested me move to the shower and see just how see through the white AussieBum’s are.
And that is where we spent the next 45 minutes.
It was great fun but I’m still not sure whether or not I’m going to see the 20yo on a regular basis.
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