Well I suppose I’m giving up binge drinking – I don’t really want to be anti social and not have a beer at a BBQ or something but no more binge drinking.
If you guys can help me out wit this that would be great.
Just this last 10 days or so there has been 1 night when I didn’t go to bed hammered. I don’t think I’m a full on alco, I don’t drink during the day, I don’t drink alone but I’m just drinking too hard I think.
Today is day 1 – I woke up late, I went for a swim and now I’m doing some work (I really should do the dishes but I keep putting it off – writing to you guys is far more important). I also just messaged a girl and her boyfriend who love threesomes – sounds like the boyfriend is straight but it sounds like fun to me.
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Dr. Phil
How would you like our help? What can we do to make this easier for you? Is mere encouragement enough?
I think it’s a good decision you’ve made–it will save you money, and a lot of needless limitation of your activities due to hangovers and such.
I rarely drink myself, for a variety of reasons. If I want to lower my inhibitions, I just tend to say “I’m not having any” and act accordingly, or if I want to relax I just think “Aw feck it,” and that usually makes me a lot more easygoing and without tension. But then, I am a strange sort of creature!
Ken
I’m glad you’ve made the decision to slow down a bit. Wish I could get that through the head of one of my mates. He crashed his car while under the influence (airbag saved his life) and still keeps on drinking, insists it was a once-in-a-lifetime fluke. Aside from that, I find that sex is 10 times better when I’m sober than when I am all liquored up. I think it’s because the alcohol keeps damping down the sensations. But when I haven’t had any drinks, it’s really wild!
Wayne
ha its always easy to think u r drinking too much, we all go thru a stage where we think we are drinking more than the average guy, but it might be a phase, u have to evaluate that yourself, we all have 3 or 6 month periods where we drink more than we should. anyway just trying to interject a voice of reason 🙂 its all up to how u think you fit in with your friends, as to how much u drink compared to the rest of the world 🙂 even training for triathlon, Lars and I get drunk once in a while, per month lol
Wayne
oh yeah, nice pic of a guy in a speedo, btw, 🙂
Dave Evans
Wow – thanks for your replies guys.
I think I need a complete post to respond properly.
Randy
I just want to say that I understand where you’re coming from. Combining alcohol with speedos and sex or a sexually charged environment lowers my inhibitions, and seriously heightens the experience for me. I really enjoy it and it gets me very hot! When I go out and do this, I’ll drink a fair amount of alcohol – over the course of 4-5 hours, I’ll finish a bottle of wine by myself, or do 4-5 shots of vodka, or have vodka drinks with an equivalent amount of alcohol.
I wouldn’t tell you how to run your life – you’ve got to do what works for you, but the way I do it is to give myself an experience like this once every few weeks as a treat – I won’t do it day after day, nor even week after week. Outside of potential health issues, it also keeps it “special”. No matter how good, how hot something is, if you do it a lot, you’re going to get bored with it, and look for ways to heighten the experience further, and that may or may not be good. I don’t remember who it was that said, “Novelty is the only true aphrodisiac”.
Have fun, be careful, and take care of yourself!