Today I was thinking about my gay history and about my first couple of gay experiences.
I’ve written about my first experience on here before, which I was some pretty sad blowjobs sitting in a chair with the lights off. After that I had some random hookups which involved an improving blowjob technique and some handjobs but it wasn’t until my 3rd experience before I actually kissed a guy and another couple of experiences after that before I let a guy fuck me.
Thinking back I cringe at my lack of experience and even how selfish a lover I was.
What I needed was a lover to have taken me under his wing and teach me all about the birds and the bees.
I’d love to hear what you guys experienced in the early days of your sex life.
4 Comments
Soli
that’s exactly what I’m looking for. my first time being fully naked with another guy was really good. He had had a bit more experience than I and though we only jacked off, he didn’t push it to do any more than I was comfortable which was nice. He would have made a great bf. After that I had my first real bf (only lasted a month) where I learned about rim jobs and that not everyone likes to swallow. Still haven’t popped my anal cherry yet – am kinda waiting for someone I trust in a situation where I’m comfortable. I’m not a prude or lacking in libido, it’s just that a few of my friends’ first times involved lots of alcohol and regret….I don’t want it to be like that. Doesn’t have to be a long term bf, just someone ‘special’.
BearMatt
My first time was with my best friend from across the road. We jacked off and sucked each others cocks for about 2 years before the shame got too much for me and I called a halt – I was 18/19 by then . He grew up and married.
I didn’t get into anal sex unil my late 20’s with my second boyfriend.
Ross
well i am still in the closet and havent done anything with anyone yet, i dont know how to ask people basically, but i have one worry, whenever i finger my ass it doesnt necessarily hurt, but it just feels uncomfortable, so i am worried about my first time :s
Randy
1980, front seats of a ’67 Mustang, driven on a dirt into an orange grove in southern California. Two high school swimmer twinks in half-shirts, erections tearing at our Dolfin shorts. A blonde, blue-eyed partner so beautiful, he remains the only guy I’ve ever kissed. A little hand, a little mouth, and boycum all over everything. Running around in the orange grove, joking and laughing, waiting for our semen-stained shorts to dry so we could go back to civilization.