Yesterday I went on my ‘blind’ date that I was setup with.
I’ll call her Laura on here.
Laura is a cutie, Canadian with “aye’s” finishing every sentence, a little skinny but I suppose that is better than being a little fat. She is super bubbly and a little hardcore. I think she is a year younger than me – maybe 2.
So I called her over the weekend but she was working and we arranged to go for a hike yesterday (Monday) and the weather turned it on. I picked her up in town and took her out to one of my favourite short hikes (2hrs, maybe a little more). We talked the whole way ’round and when we finished up it was about 3pm so we dropped into a pub in town and had a couple of beers.
Laura had to work later so that was where the day was going to end.
I think it went really well and she txt’d me today – woohooo!!!!
The next ‘date’ is going to be to head up the mountain for some snowboarding and on the way home I’ll take her for a swim – should I speedo it up or not? I’m not sure which day it will happen, will depend on the weather, but should be in the next couple of days for sure.
I can’t remember the last time I ‘dated’ a girl. I was pretty nervous – with guys I’m always a little nervous but not as nervous as I was yesterday.
I’ll keep you guys posted on what happens.
On another front – I got a message from one of my online dating sites here in town from a guy who was keen to catch up. This was last week some time and my reply was that I was keen to have a discrete ‘fuck buddy’ in town and can’t wait to catch up with him.
Perhaps that was cumming on a little too strong as I haven’t heard from him since.
6 Comments
Dr. Phil
I say go for it speedo-wise. If she’s a Canuck, then they tend to be more open to them than their American counterparts. (In fact, there was an Australian tourism commercial that aired in the U.S. and Canada, and in the U.S. version, it showed some people on the beach, and they were all in boardies and regular shorts, but in the Canadian version, it showed guys in speedos!) You never know what she might think, but it would be better to risk it on the chance that it may go well than to not do it and have to “spring” your interest in such things on her later, if things continue to develop between you.
But, well done! A girl to date, and a fuck buddy, all not long after arriving in the country! You’re doing better than most of us, I’d guess! 😉
Dave Evans
Dr. Phil,
Yeah I’ll see how the speedo thing goes – I’ve only once had a really positive response from it, a few who throught it was gross and most who didn’t think much of it.
No fuck buddy yet mate – but I’ll keep looking.
I might head down the end of the lake later in the week for a hike and I should be able to get some awesome scenery photos.
Dave
Speeedosteve
Dave, wear the speedo for sure bud…Canadians love guys in speedos…Good luck on the f*** buddy too.. Im going out of town this week to meet up with an old f*** buddy of mine from like 15 yrs ago… Should be interesting.. Speedo on Dave!!!… Steve
Dave Evans
Speedo Steve,
A 15yo fuck buddy catch up – that is awesome Steve. You should email me through what happened and I’ll post it here.
I love catching up with old fuck buddies – everyone seems to know what to do and what to expect.
Good luck mate.
Dave
zebra
Dave — what could be better? Just delicious…
Take a few scenery photos when you go swimming with Laura — being the true gentleman you are, you can crop off her head to spare any blushes. But we’ll still get the benefit of seeing her slim, keen body in high-cut slinky bikini, an extensive area of waxed groin just crying out to be caressed by a fresh, eager new lover’s fingertips — next stop the willing, open, melting lips of her ultra-keen cunt.
Even now, she’s probably consulting her own Bi Bikini Babes support group about how cunt-conscious she wants to present herself to you as being. So by the time you peel off for each other in reality, you might just as well be naked. As you may have divined by now, I belong with the go-for-it consensus.
And being the man’s man that you are, you should be able to head off from Laura’s bed to your fuck buddy’s — the path of true sexual fulfilment. And then you’ll be giving us the edited highlights: just so HARD for my hero……
SilverRRCloud
I would not worry 2 much about grossing anyone out over the speedos. If she can’t take that bit, most likely, she won’t be more than a 1-2 date, I’d say. So, why waste time?
The same applies to the FB. If he is looking for a romance, a LTR, etc., and you are looking for a cool FB, you are simply wasting each other’s time.
So many willing dudes out there…
SC