I’m not sure if I have shared with you guys my first ever sexual experience.
It was at a friend of mines house – he was my best friend growing up. We were looking at some porn that I had brought over on a three and a quarter inch floppy disk.
My friend had a pool at his place and we had been swimming – both of us always wore speedos under our boardies and we were both sitting wearing only our speedos and a towel wrapped around our waist.
We were both pretty horny watching the porn and somehow we agreed to suck each other off. Thinking that is was a bit gay we turned off the lights, I sat in a chair in the middle of the room while my friend left. I took off my speedos and told my friend to come in and he started sucking my cock.
I then did this for him. Neither of us came from the blowjobs and we went into the bathroom and finished ourselves off – one at a time. We played a little bit like this a few times but nothing much more.
That is a bit of a tangent considering what I was originally going to write today.
What I was going to write was that I found this pic below and it is a major turn on for me. I’m not really into leather but being tied up, I am into that. I think Will is going to get tied up when he gets home from work. And he can do this to me any day!!!
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Dr. Phil
Fascinating experience–there are many of my teenage friends with whom I would have liked for such moments to have occurred, but alas, they did not. Oh well…
As far as bondage is concerned, I’d say if you’re new to the experience, be careful. Do some reading on websites if you can’t find books on how to do it safely. There is a little phrase that is used in the BDSM community, which is “Safe, Sane, Consensual” and it is important to keep all of those things in mind when engaged in such activities. Sure, it doesn’t sound as porn-like or as “hot” to some people when those very real concerns are brought up, but believe me, it is better to make sure it’s okay with everyone, to have failsafes in place (like a safe word–an ABSOLUTE necessity–and heavy-duty scissors and things to cut restraining devices if things go badly, etc.), and to not do anything stupid (not that you would, but I’m just saying!). This can make all the difference between a hot and fun night of sexual and sensual activity of various descriptions, and a trip to the emergency room, or having permanently-damaged wrists and things thereafter because handcuffs (which you generally shouldn’t use–even the novelty ones) were too tight, and so forth.
If you have any questions on this, I am fairly experienced in these types of things and would be happy to speak with you further. Heavy-duty and complex bondage (e.g. Japanese rope bondage) and such really isn’t my thing, but I do engage in some of this, and various other BDSM and fetish-related activities.